Sunday, February 5, 2017

Sharing Kindness: A Frenzied SLP Blog Hop




I recently had a student tell me I should be teaching him about kindness. He felt kindness was more important than strategies. I agree. Kindness is an ultimate goal as it relates to social competency. I explained the strategies we are learning lead to kind behavior. He seemed satisfied with my explanation. 
It seems there is a disconnect between kindness and the way people are behaving these days. The tolerance and acceptance people are professing only exists to the extent that they think others should believe as they do and not vice versa. The prevailing sentiment is "If you don't agree, you're a fool. I am right." Society is stuck on needing to be right, rather than accepting differences of opinion. Americans are expressing their opinions with ad hominem attacks, violence and vulgarity and our witness children are learning this is how to behave.  Furthermore, people seem to believe opinions ARE facts! Don't we help our students learn the difference between fact and opinion? The truth is, we are all entitled to our own opinions, just not our own facts. My anxiety increases daily as I see the diminishing premium placed on kindness in our world. I pray that we as a society begin to understand that it takes a conscious effort to behave with kindness and compassion. That living with kindness means extending kindness to everyone; the colleague who annoys you, the person who voted for the other candidate, the driver who cut you off, the neighbor whose dog barks, and the demanding parent. I've seen the hashtag #kindnessnation. Hashtags are cool and trendy, however I believe actions and effort are what is needed. I'd like to see people posting how they acted on their kindness each day because I believe #kindnessiscontagious.


The Frenzied SLPs are coming together in sharing kindness this month in the way we know best! We have collaborated to create FREE materials all with a kindness theme. You'll be able to target a wonderful variety of speech and language skills with these products! We think you and your students are going to love them. Let's keep the kindness going! We graciously thank you for downloading and using these materials with your students/clients. If you would be so kind, please leave feedback in our TpT stores if you find a few spare moments!
My valentine treat for you is a social story about giving and receiving valentines. This freebie is a story social intended for use with children who need help understanding the process of giving and receiving Valentine's Day cards. The tradition of giving cards may be overwhelming and confusing for our children with social pragmatic challenges.
Included in the download are 6 sheets that can be cut in half for a 12 page story. There are also places where students can insert themselves into the story by drawing a picture or gluing a photo. I hope you find it useful.

You can download it for free here.


Three things in human life are important: the first is to be kind; the second is to be kind; and the third is to be kind. ~ Henry James

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14 comments:

  1. I love your freebie, but more importantly, I love your post! I wish everyone would read this and work harder at making their daily words and actions kinder!

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    1. Well, Linda it can start with us! I'm going to post as often as I can #kindnessiscontagious!

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  2. Oh my goodness what a perfect topic to address as we go into Valentine's Day! I love the mini book- our babies struggle with receiving and giving things appropriately - or coping with disappointment or feelings that someone doesn't like them or someone else is getting something better than them. This is a great way to address all of that. We are definitely on the same wavelength in our thinking (re:your post). No wonder I like you so much ;)

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  3. I love your post. We are different because we are humans, and we can be kind to each other.

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    1. You said it!! If you speak with our minds and hearts and not unbridled emotion.

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  4. Here, here! It's frightening that the kids are seeing behavior and thinking that it's the way people are supposed to act. We definitely need some kindness in this world!

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  5. Great post! It's true, we can be kind even when we disagree. Thank you for the great freebie!

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    1. We must be kind when we disagree. I try to remember to love the person, not their opinions.

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  6. Love that quote at the end. It is so important to help set an example for our children. Thank you for sharing your kindness <3

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    1. It's my pleasure! My speech friends make it easy!!

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